Why are parents so sensitive to trends? Why are they spending small fortunes and become sanctimonious and judgmental in some of the worst cases? I’m guilty of succumbing and find myself easily caught up in the one-upmanship and new news paranoia that prompts new parents to always be striving for some version of perfection.
Babble.com offered some insight recently. Babble is this hipster parent web site from the makers of Nerve.com for the new generation of parents. The site features articles like, “Just how dangerous is it to smoke pot when you’re pregnant?” Pretty provocative perhaps?
Parenting is a loaded subject. It seems everyone’s got a point-of-view. EVERYONE. From the seasoned parents of multiple kids to the organic gardener down the block with no kids or plans for any.
For me, anything that takes the piss out of the current obsessive parenting culture and enormous industry built around it, is a fun read. Madeline Holler describes those “trends”, both “in” and “out”, that may prove baffling.
OUT
The “ayden”-ifaction” naming style: Same name, different spelling: Kaitlyn, and the –aydens. I’m guilty of using an atypical spelling. My daughter’s name is spelled with a C instead of the classic K. It was probably some attempt to distinguish her from all the other kids she’ll grow up with.
Bringing baby to work: Oh, the horror of watching the guy in the cube across from you talking baby talk as he soothes his little one. Babble’s point, and I agree – maybe it’s time for flex time to actually happen or even better, day care down the hall or co-ops for small companies.
Helicopter Parenting: This is a parenting that baffles me and my Gen X peers. Holler describes it, “Moms now negotiate grades with their kids’ college professors. Dads shake hands with baby’s future employer…”Any parent joining his/her 21+ year old kids at their first job interview? It just seems strange! My folks were supportive but I fended for myself. They believe I would learn important life lesson learn how to be resourceful, tenacious and proud of my own hard-earned achievements.
Nursing well beyond babyhood: Really? For real? Nursing until kids are in first grade when they’re articulate enough to have a thoughtful conversation about trains and Sesame Street?
Next, the “In” List.







